Zhane - Everything Happens For a Reason w/ Lyrics

When Love Hurts......

Okay I know for the most part, I've maintained a sense of humor throughout most of my blog post. But not this time......

It's so easy to throw out words when you're arguing with your spouse but you'll never be able to take those hurtful words back. Throwing out words like divorce and separation, get really old really quickly. You've created a festering wound in the one you claimed to love once upon a time, they'll build up a wall and declare that you'll never hurt them again. If you don't mean those words DON'T SAY THEM. But whatever you do don't continue to go about your usual day to day rigmarole and "forget" that you've been hurtful and spoken hurtful words and expect your mate to have forgotten what you've said...believe me they haven't.

Things will never be the same....

Just Say No to New Years Resolutions!!!

I use to be the one making all of these extremely impossible to accomplish (for me) New Years Resolutions. Some I'd follow through with, others I never came close to trying to achieve. The results would always be the same, I'd be so disappointed in myself and felt like a failure.  So this coming year I've decided that NOPE there will be NO New Years Resolutions for me.

.....certainly there are things that I need to work on, change, master, do, accomplish, focus on,  etcetera etcetera but these things will be done in due time. I'm not putting a time frame on anything any longer.

                                                        HAPPY NEW YEARS
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